asking and answering

cineraria: The Hidden Chairs by Ibride on Vimeo WAIT STOP

Fri, 24 May 2013 14:24:19 -0400

The Hidden Chairs by Ibride on Vimeo

WAIT STOP

awkwardsituationist: “not natasha,” a photographic essay on...

Fri, 24 May 2013 11:37:00 -0400

“not natasha,” a photographic essay on eastern european sex trafficked slaves by dana popa

(documentary, the real sex traffic; film, lilya 4-ever)

so this is actually what i’m studying this summer. literally- today’s class period was watching .lilja 4-ever

"Alone and a little embarrassed, I decided to get roaringly drunk."

Fri, 24 May 2013 11:34:19 -0400

“Alone and a little embarrassed, I decided to get roaringly drunk.”

- How to deal with social situations 101, by Nick Carraway (via asangelscanfly)

jaceherndales: We’re all ghosts to you. We must be nothing.

Fri, 24 May 2013 09:36:15 -0400

jaceherndales:

We’re all ghosts to you. We must be nothing.

H i d e

Fri, 24 May 2013 04:48:16 -0400

H i d e

hyperionholmeswatson: #at first I was like oh #and then I was...

Thu, 23 May 2013 19:12:29 -0400

hyperionholmeswatson:

#at first I was like oh #and then I was like OOOOHHH #and then i cried a little

Photo

Thu, 23 May 2013 14:24:18 -0400

awesomephilia: These two kids who had never met before, decided...

Thu, 23 May 2013 11:54:35 -0400

awesomephilia:

These two kids who had never met before, decided to hug it out (via)

thathatisis: shesonlylittle: One of my best boys is graduating...

Thu, 23 May 2013 11:46:49 -0400

thathatisis:

shesonlylittle:

One of my best boys is graduating this Sunday and so I made him a handy thing to use whenever people ask “And what do you plan on doing with that?” Which is still every other day of my life, even a year after getting my diploma.

I just fist-pumped a little.

except in my life “school you with my use of semicolons” is like 90%

Photo

Thu, 23 May 2013 11:38:34 -0400

Photo

Thu, 23 May 2013 11:20:42 -0400

sweet-land-of-libertea: thackerybinxx: shinga-tumblr: It’s...

Thu, 23 May 2013 09:36:15 -0400

sweet-land-of-libertea:

thackerybinxx:

shinga-tumblr:

It’s okay kitten, I too have been that drunk

OH my GOD

infomercial kitten.

why is no-one willing to sell him a special kitten straw for $19.95

queenrylan: esotericalesbians: it breaks my heart knowing that i will never receive a...

Thu, 23 May 2013 04:48:18 -0400

queenrylan:

esotericalesbians:

it breaks my heart knowing that i will never receive a blowjob

what the fuck why do so many people think they will never receive a blowjob

Because we have vaginas

death-by-lulz: Doctor Who summed up in a sentence

Wed, 22 May 2013 19:12:15 -0400

death-by-lulz:

Doctor Who summed up in a sentence

oh my god give to me

Wed, 22 May 2013 14:24:05 -0400

oh my god give to me

allthingseurope: Villa d’Este,Tivoli, Italy (by petervanallen)

Wed, 22 May 2013 09:36:24 -0400

allthingseurope:

Villa d’Este,Tivoli, Italy (by petervanallen)

123lee: Banksy.

Wed, 22 May 2013 04:48:24 -0400

123lee:

Banksy.

http://youtu.be/VLnWf1sQkjY

Tue, 21 May 2013 19:12:23 -0400

http://youtu.be/VLnWf1sQkjY

Photo

Tue, 21 May 2013 14:24:22 -0400

"It turns out procrastination is not typically a function of laziness, apathy or work ethic as it is..."

Tue, 21 May 2013 10:52:07 -0400

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It turns out procrastination is not typically a function of laziness, apathy or work ethic as it is often regarded to be. It’s a neurotic self-defense behavior that develops to protect a person’s sense of self-worth.

You see, procrastinators tend to be people who have, for whatever reason, developed to perceive an unusually strong association between their performance and their value as a person. This makes failure or criticism disproportionately painful, which leads naturally to hesitancy when it comes to the prospect of doing anything that reflects their ability — which is pretty much everything.

But in real life, you can’t avoid doing things. We have to earn a living, do our taxes, have difficult conversations sometimes. Human life requires confronting uncertainty and risk, so pressure mounts. Procrastination gives a person a temporary hit of relief from this pressure of “having to do” things, which is a self-rewarding behavior. So it continues and becomes the normal way to respond to these pressures.

Particularly prone to serious procrastination problems are children who grew up with unusually high expectations placed on them. Their older siblings may have been high achievers, leaving big shoes to fill, or their parents may have had neurotic and inhuman expectations of their own, or else they exhibited exceptional talents early on, and thereafter “average” performances were met with concern and suspicion from parents and teachers.

”

- David Cain, “Procrastination Is Not Laziness” (via pawneeparksdepartment)